新田鈴夏&王黄唯嘉
Suzuka Nitta   ·   Sam Wang
October 13 · 2026
Yufuin, Ōita
湯布院 · 大分
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The Plan: October 13  ·  当日のスケジュール

The Plan

The ceremony is at 空想の森 アルテジオ ("Forest of Imagination Artegio" gallery, which sits inside the 山荘無量塔 (Sanso Murata) complex. Everything else, the private onsens, dinner, the salon bar, and breakfast the next morning, is at 山荘わらび野 (Sansou Warabino), a short drive away, where our guests' stay is our treat.

3 pm ~ 3:30 pm

式/Ceremony — 空想の森 アルテジオ (Artegio)

The procession ceremony takes place at アルテジオ — a museum, café, and gallery complex inside 山荘無量塔, built around the relationship between music and visual art.

4 pm

Back to 山荘わらび野/Sanso Warabino — Settle In

Return to the inn. This is unstructured time — rest, walk the garden, settle in!

5 pm

カクテルアワー / Cocktail Hour at the 檀香梅 Salon

As you settle in, there will be cocktail hour at the inn's wine bar, with soft music and conversation.

6 pm

ウェディングパーティ / Wedding Party

Wedding Party at the central building at the inn. Fresh seafood from the Bungo Channel, 豊後ゆふいん牛 wagyu, vegetables from the inn's own garden.

Evening

Return to Room

Return to your rooms, soak in the natural onsen, change into your yukatas. Maybe a konnbini run? The bars at the Big Three inns are also a short walk away.

Next morning, time TBD

朝食 / Breakfast Together

We'll have breakfast together at the same area where we had the wedding party. We'll say our goodbyes and depart after everyone's had a chance to eat and take a last couple of walks. Thank you so much for coming!!

The Date  ·  日取り

The Date

We chose October as it falls in the beginning of autumn in Yufuin, with the temperature difference between night and day creating a thick mist around the town. It is also the month of culture and food where the entire town celebrates with events and faires surrounding eating. The particular date is important for people celebrating marriages in Japan as it falls on an auspicious day in the Japanese calendar.

In the Taiwanese 黃曆 calendar, October 13th also lands as an auspicious day: the Day Pillar is 庚申, the Metal Monkey, and the day is marked as 開日 (Open Day), a day considered favorable for new beginnings!

大明日
Daimyonichi

Literally translates to "sky and land opens, and sun shines throughout the corners of the world", meaning everything you do this day goes well.

大安
Taian

"Great peace." The most auspicious day in the Japanese six-day calendar cycle, traditionally chosen for weddings and new beginnings.

Our story

Suzuka was born in Beppu and grew up in Kumamoto, both in Kyushu. Her family moved to Belmont, Massachusetts when she was eight for her father's research, and they eventually moved back to Tokyo together. Suzuka later came to New York alone for Columbia, and has been thereabouts since. She has been playing violin since before she can remember. No matter where she has lived, Yufuin has always held a special place in her heart.

Sam grew up in South Jersey, the son of a father from Shanghai and a mother from Keelung, Taiwan. Every summer, his grandparents would take the family to Japan after they arrived in Taiwan — his grandfather spoke Japanese and wanted the boys to learn. Although they only ended up with American-accented Chinese and no Japanese, they cultivated an unspoken appreciation for the complex cultural ties between the two nations. Sam has also been playing violin since before he can remember, and traveled to New York around the same time for Columbia.

We met freshman year at Columbia in Manhattan in orchestra. Suzuka was convinced she recognized Sam from the New England Conservatory in Boston. Sam had to assure her multiple times, that he'd never stepped foot in NEC and that he was definitely not who she was thinking of.

Sam would ask Suzuka to borrow a pencil every week ("I had one in my violin case but liked asking anyway"). We parted ways for a while, but in junior year, we ended up sitting next to each other in an organic chemistry class in Havemeyer Hall.

We started dating April 5th, 2019 when Sam asked to make it official at the Metropolitan Museum American Wing, next to The Struggle of the Two Natures in Man — Suzuka was drawn to the batlike creature that is part of it.

The Struggle of the Two Natures in Man
Detail
Detail

George Grey Barnard · The Struggle of the Two Natures in Man, 1894 · Metropolitan Museum of Art

Proposal
Proposal
Proposal

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